While this book was very interesting, it was more about general interpersonal relationships than about specifically the intimate relationships.  That kind of thing is certainly encapsulated in the book’s message, it isn’t really the only thing it is about.  The book says there are 3 types of behaviors (really says people, but i think any person can show a type of behavior at any point).  The three behaviors are Anxious, Stable, and Distant.  I know I have exhibited all 3 at points.  The book talks about how to handle these types of behaviors, whether they are coming from yourself or from others.  It also says how to be happy with someone if they exhibit specific types of these behaviors more than others.  It bases most of the arguments it makes on the idea that the monogamous relationship is the foundation of social interactions.  From what I’ve read and come to believe, I’m not sure that is true.  That said, the book talks about interpersonal relationships, so the true message isn’t lost even if monogamy is not the basis of society.

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